By Ivette Mayo
The time has come to become UNSTUCK. There are no more excuses. No longer do you need to delay the things you need achieve. Whether it’s in your business, work, love, spiritual growth, or any other aspect of your life— being stuck is frustrating. You are stationary, yet the world around you is moving and progressing. Being stuck is no fun and has the potential to derail you indefinitely. Knowing this, why aren’t you doing everything in your POWER to remove yourself from this nonproductive state? I know what is holding you back, you don’t know how!
A good place to start is to figure out what kind of state of “stuck” you are in. It’s important to get clear on why you are distracted? Identify what emotions are moving you further away from your goals? What is really keeping you from making real progress? What turns great opportunities in a big mass of uncompleted tasks? The time to shift your thinking and move yourself to ignite the proverbial fire is at hand.
Try these 5 simple steps to help you make the leap.
- Ask for HELP!
People often feel that they need to do everything alone. But no one ever does everything alone. Oprah didn’t build her network alone and Bill Gates didn’t build his empire alone. It’s important to remember to seek support when you need it. Create an exchange with a friend, mentor or hire a coach who has some expertise in the area where you are being challenged. Connect the dots and share your challenge with them. Ask for help. Seek clarity!
- See the Challenge as an Opportunity
When you focus on what’s wrong, you are likely to continue more of the same negative thinking. Look for what you can find that is right about the situation. Does it open you up to a new network of people? Will you be able to acquire new resources or obtain a hidden lesson? When you begin to see “a gain” in the situation — you will progress. You will begin to see with the eyes an opportunity, which will allow you to see a way around obstacles. Changing your filters!
- Modification of Your Daily Unchanging Routine
As creatures of habit, there’s a tendency to run on autopilot. Stop the insanity – doing something over and over again and expecting a different outcome. If you find yourself stuck, try mixing up your existence. Break up daily activities by adding new one. Go for a walk outdoors instead of hitting the gym for a high-impact cardio workout. Sign up for a seminar. Pick up a new audiobook and listen to it while you drive home instead of listening to news. Meditate twice a day for 30 minutes instead of once a day for 10 minutes. By switching things up a bit, allows you to access different parts of your brain, which can increase your awareness and intensifies creativity.
- Be Honest With Yourself
Many people sabotage their own process, consciously or unconsciously, as a result of deep-seated fears, negative thoughts and limiting beliefs. Whenever you aren’t able to achieve your goals it’s because there’s a discrepancy between what you say you want and what you’re actually experiencing. Be honest with yourself about what it is you’re trying to accomplish and ask yourself if it’s really what you want. You will be surprised with you results. There is a real connection between what you think, say, believe and outcomes. Change you words – Change your results!
- Take Action Every Day
The choices you make every moment of every day truly do matter. When you choose to take positive progressive steps to do little things every day that are in the direction you want to go, you make progress even when essentially you don’t see any immediate gain. It is in those small things, the ones that seem so insignificant, that become compounded over time, and before you know it, you have achieved your goals. Choose small steps!
Creating POWERFUL and IMPACTFUL Results is what I desire for you.
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Ivette Mayo is an award winning entrepreneur, business strategist, leadership expert and author. Visit her website www.ivettemayo.com Ivette is always ready to encourage, empower and support women to be POWERFUL. Follow Ivette Mayo on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.